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If you are currently
being abused.
Are you here as a result of someone hitting
or threatening you-a spouse, boyfriend, lover, relative or
someone you know? Have you been sexually abused by someone
you know? As you read this, you may be feeling confused, frightened,
sad, angry or ashamed. You are not alone! Unfortunately,
what happened to you is very common. Domestic violence does
not go away on its own. It tends to get worse and more frequent
with time. There are people who can help you. If you want
to begin talking about the problem, need a safe place to stay
or want legal advice-call one of the agencies listed on the
back of this instruction sheet today.
While still at the
clinic.
- Think about whether it is safe to return home.
If not, call one of the resources listed on the back
of this instruction sheet or stay with a friend or
relative.
- You have received instructions on caring for your
injuries and taking medications prescribed. Remember,
if you have received tranquilizers they may help you
rest but they won't solve the problem of battering.
- Battering is a crime and you have the right to
legal intervention. You should consider calling the
police for assistance (see information on back of
this sheet). You may also obtain a court order prohibiting
your partner from contacting you in any way (including
in person or by phone). Contact a local DV program
or an attorney for more information.
- Ask the doctor or nurse to take photos of your
injuries to become part of your medical record.
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When you get home.
- Develop an "exit plan" in advance for you and your
children. Know exactly where you could go even in
the middle of the night-and how to get there.
- Pack an "overnight bag" in case you have to leave
home in a hurry. Either hide it yourself or give it
to a friend to keep for you.
- Pack toilet articles, medications, an extra set
of keys to the house and car, an extra set of clothing
for you and your children, and a toy for each child.
- Have extra cash, loose change for phone calls,
checkbook, or savings account book hidden or with
a friend.
- Pack important papers and financial records (the
originals or copies), such as social security cards,
birth certificates, green cards, passports, work authorization
and any other immigration documents, voter registration
cards, medical cards and records, drivers license,
rent receipts, title to the car and proof of insurance,
etc.
- Notify your neighbors if you think it is safe.
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